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Hi there! Clara, here. Butter lover, doer of yoga and emotional intelligence junkie. As a human behavior specialist and coach, I help you take a modern approach to dating based in self knowledge, not games, rules, tips and tricks. I apply a blend of psychology, philosophy, humor and real talk to help uncover your blocks to intimacy, understand the genesis of your relationship patterns, and then take concrete steps to reverse that behavior.

If you’re seeking a smarter and more intentional approach to love and relationships, let’s talk.



Shifting your dating experience and moving purposefully towards the relationship you want has little to do with which app to use, which bar to frequent or what to text back. In fact, it has little to do with the other person at all. It has everything to do with you. In our one-on-one work together, we’ll:

  • Unpack your relationship blocks and patterns (i.e. why you keep attracting the same man, why men keep ghosting, or why nothing ever seems to work out).

  • Gain clarity on how you (yes, you!) have played a role in the frustrating and disappointing nature of your dating life.

  • By gaining clarity on that role, we’ll then put you back in the driver’s seat and develop a method for dating with purpose and intention.

  • We’ll develop an action-oriented plan for creating meaningful dating experiences and manifesting relationships.

Within it all we’ll cover the big picture dilemmas (How will I meet my partner? Will this even happen for me?) to your actual approach (Should I use apps? How can I meet someone in person?). If you’re interested in working together, contact me here to set up a complimentary intro session to learn more about how sessions and fees work.

how to date in the digital age (And not lose your mind) – Coming spring 2019!

When I first started out on my dating journey five years ago, I had zero idea what I was doing. At the same time, I found the text this, do this, don’t do that narrative around how to make myself more attractive to a man utterly maddening (not to mention, deeply misogynistic). Many tears, missteps and bad dates later, I finally developed an approach that allowed that worked and felt good, and I actually came to enjoy (yes, enjoy) dating.

This approach is not for everyone. It’s about doing the true work, facing your shit, and developing deep emotional intelligence. This program is right for you if:

  • You’re seeking a smarter, more intentional approach to dating.

  • You’re over quick fixes, rules and games. You’re looking to connect deeply and develop something meaningful with another person – whatever that looks like for you.

  • You’re ready to dig in and do the REAL work, meaning, stare down your limiting beliefs and patterns when it comes to love, and get out of your own way.

  • You’re ready to mess up along the way, exercise endless compassion, and learn a whole lot about yourself in the process.

If that sounds interesting, be notified when the program launches by inputting your email below!