Dating isn’t hard because men are assholes. Dating isn’t hard because the apps are bullshit. Dating isn’t hard because people don’t want to settle down.
Dating is hard because it’s an emotionally complicated endeavor, the ultimate goal of which is no small feat: a deep and meaningful connection with a person you admire, love and respect. It takes grit, courage, humility, vulnerability, and boat loads of self awareness.
No tip, trick or rule will trump that reality.
I’m proposing a way of seeking partnership that boldly embraces that truth.
The women I coach generally come to me when they’re experiencing one or more of the following things:
They’re exhausted by the more common narrative around dating (It’s a numbers game! You just have to put yourself out there! Don’t expect to meet people in person.) and have a hunch that it’s not all so…..true. They have a feeling there’s a different way. A way filled with more clarity and intention. More growth and joy. But most of all, more space for being human. For messing up. For learning about themselves while they actively move towards co-creating a life with another.
They’ve often sought therapy and have found the experience clarifying, but now they’re not sure how to actually work with the internal struggles, limiting beliefs and fears they know they hold. They crave a thought partner, a guide, a coach, to take those realities and work with them on a day-to-day, person-to-person, date-to-date basis.
They’re coming off the ending of a relationship or a series of lackluster and frustrating dating experiences and want to take a true break from dating, but do so with intention. They’re ready to use this time to develop tremendous self awareness, disassemble old patterns of being in relationship, and in doing so, move towards the type of partnership they actually desire with purpose.
Our work together consists of:
One-on-one coaching calls
Customized homework assignments (journaling, reading, listening exercises)
Ongoing digital (text and email) support— from in the moment dating experiences to larger issues you’re grappling with in between sessions
Really though, the best way to see if my coaching is the right fit for you, and to learn about pricing and packaging, we should chat! Schedule a complimentary session below.