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You're Wrong For Me, But I Still Miss You
You're Wrong For Me, But I Still Miss You

Ironically, telling him and essentially cutting him off, made me feel a lot less lonely.

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Clara ArtschwagerDecember 1, 2020
I'm Used to Managing My Own Closure
I'm Used to Managing My Own Closure

I was so used to managing closure on my own. With this guy — with every guy. But that’d also become a crutch. A way to mask my feelings and just “move on” while avoiding a difficult conversation.

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Clara ArtschwagerDecember 1, 2020
The (Underlying) Sweetness of Ghosting
The (Underlying) Sweetness of Ghosting

I’d ghosted because saying something dishonest seemed worse than saying nothing at all.

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Clara ArtschwagerDecember 1, 2020
Here’s to the Hot Ones (That Make Zero Sense)
Here’s to the Hot Ones (That Make Zero Sense)

There are these moments in our dating lives where things feel equal parts insane but also kismet.

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Clara ArtschwagerDecember 1, 2020
I Want the Steel Beam of Relationships
I Want the Steel Beam of Relationships

Whenever I experience such extreme negativity in any form or context — be it home ownership or love — it makes me pause, and then (often) call bullshit.

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Clara ArtschwagerDecember 1, 2020
A Breakup Isn't a Parallel to the Pandemic But the Emotions Are Similar
A Breakup Isn't a Parallel to the Pandemic But the Emotions Are Similar
Clara ArtschwagerDecember 1, 2020
It's Not the Dates Themselves That Are So Hard, But the In-Between
It's Not the Dates Themselves That Are So Hard, But the In-Between

Dating and beyond, it's a constant effort with anything in life, to not view our present through the lens of our past.

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Clara ArtschwagerNovember 19, 2020
How to Lean Into Liking Someone
How to Lean Into Liking Someone

The rebound to end all rebounds ultimately taught me how to lean into liking someone in those early days of dating.

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Clara ArtschwagerNovember 19, 2020
Chemistry Isn’t a Cure All
Chemistry Isn’t a Cure All

The wounds of my breakup were squarely in the rearview, but I could easily recall how terrible they felt. 

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Clara ArtschwagerApril 16, 2020
4 Reasons Dating in NYC Is Not, in Fact, the Worst
4 Reasons Dating in NYC Is Not, in Fact, the Worst

…we love to make excuses for our problems, especially by way of blaming circumstances supposedly outside of our control. Case in point: dating in NYC.

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Clara ArtschwagerApril 3, 2020
Dating Without Texting Is the Absolute Best
Dating Without Texting Is the Absolute Best

On our third date, he proposed something unexpected…

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Clara ArtschwagerApril 2, 2020
3 Signs You and Your Crush Aren't Meant to Be
3 Signs You and Your Crush Aren't Meant to Be

How to assess those early crush feelings.

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Clara ArtschwagerApril 2, 2020
4 Things This Dating Coach Wants You To Do Before You Start Dating Again
4 Things This Dating Coach Wants You To Do Before You Start Dating Again

Four grounded practices for dating with intention in the 2020.

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Clara ArtschwagerApril 2, 2020
How To Not Lose Your Mind Dating In The Instagram Age
How To Not Lose Your Mind Dating In The Instagram Age

Exploring the faulty promises of leaning on Instagram in dating.

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Clara ArtschwagerApril 2, 2020
How The Pandemic Is Changing The Way We View Dating
How The Pandemic Is Changing The Way We View Dating

Dating during COVID-19 is radically different—and not just because we're doing a lot more virtual dates.

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Clara ArtschwagerMarch 31, 2020
Here's How To End An Awkward Zoom Date If You’re 100% Over It
Here's How To End An Awkward Zoom Date If You’re 100% Over It

Like your classes, work calls, and happy hours, dates have probably also moved to Zoom in the face of the coronavirus outbreak. Dating under quarantine comes with a learning curve. 

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Clara ArtschwagerDecember 2, 2019
On Finding Hope After Heartbreak
On Finding Hope After Heartbreak

Gone were our days of haphazardly hooking up with guys and hoping they’d turn into husband material by morning.

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Clara ArtschwagerSeptember 4, 2019
Getting No Message From Someone You Like Is Message Enough & Here's Why
Getting No Message From Someone You Like Is Message Enough & Here's Why

When you're in one of those situations, it's easy to make excuses.

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Clara ArtschwagerSeptember 3, 2019
I Had My First Date at 28
I Had My First Date at 28

At the beginning of 2014, the relationship I thought would lead to marriage came to an end…

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Clara ArtschwagerSeptember 2, 2019
Setting Social Media Boundaries in Dating
Setting Social Media Boundaries in Dating

We view the profile of someone we like and see them out with other girls and think….does he like them? Is he attracted to them? Will he be attracted to me?

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Clara ArtschwagerSeptember 2, 2019
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