Ironically, telling him and essentially cutting him off, made me feel a lot less lonely.
Read MoreI was so used to managing closure on my own. With this guy — with every guy. But that’d also become a crutch. A way to mask my feelings and just “move on” while avoiding a difficult conversation.
Read MoreI’d ghosted because saying something dishonest seemed worse than saying nothing at all.
Read MoreThere are these moments in our dating lives where things feel equal parts insane but also kismet.
Read MoreWhenever I experience such extreme negativity in any form or context — be it home ownership or love — it makes me pause, and then (often) call bullshit.
Read MoreDating and beyond, it's a constant effort with anything in life, to not view our present through the lens of our past.
Read MoreThe rebound to end all rebounds ultimately taught me how to lean into liking someone in those early days of dating.
Read MoreThe wounds of my breakup were squarely in the rearview, but I could easily recall how terrible they felt.
Read More…we love to make excuses for our problems, especially by way of blaming circumstances supposedly outside of our control. Case in point: dating in NYC.
Read MoreOn our third date, he proposed something unexpected…
Read MoreHow to assess those early crush feelings.
Read MoreFour grounded practices for dating with intention in the 2020.
Read MoreExploring the faulty promises of leaning on Instagram in dating.
Read MoreDating during COVID-19 is radically different—and not just because we're doing a lot more virtual dates.
Read MoreLike your classes, work calls, and happy hours, dates have probably also moved to Zoom in the face of the coronavirus outbreak. Dating under quarantine comes with a learning curve.
Read MoreGone were our days of haphazardly hooking up with guys and hoping they’d turn into husband material by morning.
Read MoreWhen you're in one of those situations, it's easy to make excuses.
Read MoreAt the beginning of 2014, the relationship I thought would lead to marriage came to an end…
Read MoreWe view the profile of someone we like and see them out with other girls and think….does he like them? Is he attracted to them? Will he be attracted to me?
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